Friday, April 8, 2011

Of loners n pushovers

Fear and Friendships..

Observations.

Some people can live well by themselves.. Loners yes, but they live happy independent lives without having to rely on others. And they seem proud that they are independent. Call them anti-social. But they don't owe you a living to they? And care they not, whatever mockery you have against them.

On the other extreem. Some people can't live without friends. Are afraid to be lonely. Need friends or company to make them feel complete. They then resort to many means to keep friends. Don't even mind being trampled all over. Clinging to this minute hope that they're still loved. Pathetic? Perhaps.. But why the low self esteem in the first place? Hmm..
Why the hesitation to stand up for themselves? Why allow self torture... both physical and mental?